Thanks everyone. And thanks Meriad. I'm use to talking to myself here during my day.
He gets his op tomorrow sometime. I went to see him quickly today, he looked up as soon as he heard my voice and struggled to the front of the cafe for a quick smooch before he lay back down. Poor thing is in soo much pain.
I would have loved to stay longer, but I had left a vomiting Oliver with the cleaner while I dropped Sasha off at kindy and I slipped in to see him and drop off he medicine. He had been vomiting every half hour since 5am, and had just as I was leaving, so I thought I would be safe and was rushing home to be there in time for his next one, only to discover he had twice in 10 minutes.

Cleaner was really good though, she was reading him a story. She is also (coincidently) a registered preschool child minder
His vomiting eased mid morning, and he was looking heaps better after lunch, so I made the call to dash put to west auckland to pick up the cat cage I will need, so big bowl, kids, water, blankets, and spare clothes packed, we headed out west, which involves going over the harbour bridge, in gale force winds. That was a hairy experience. Got the cage, collected the trailer from mums, (the drainage guy phoned, and he's starting our job this Friday

, not next month

) so now I'm all set for Thursday. I decided to make the run today, just in case Oliver and or the weather are worse tomorrow.